Bob grew up loving the outdoors and all it had to offer. After serving in the Navy, he became a Virginia Game Warden in 1947. On February 1, 1949, Bob was sworn in as a member of the U.S. Bureau of Sport Fisheries and Wildlife. During his career, he worked in Alaska, California, Mexico, and Washington, D.C. as an undercover agent, served as Agent-in-Charge for North Carolina and Delaware, as well as various supervisory and training positions throughout the United States.
So how many people can say they had Special Agent 33 as their father? Summer vacations were often adventures in duck banding, fishing forays, or scouting trips for upcoming hunting sting operations. We learned to be very observant, resourceful, close ranks when necessary, and "debrief" at the end of the day. It all seemed so normal at the time.
Day 3 - Good news, bad news. Aunt Florence visited dad and he really responded to her. She was always held favorite aunt status at our house. For years dad has tried to persuade her to come live with him to no avail until now. She leaves to get some things and promises to return. I am so happy - this is a win, win situation. Dad is perky and eats more than in the last few days. Walter and Barbara continue to bring on the good food. Things go well until 1:30 A.M. I awake to shouting and pounding on the wall. I think someone may be trying to break into the house but no dog alarm from Gus. Once I ascertain it is dad scared and disorientated, I start to regain my composure. I get him a sleeping pill and read in his room for an hour until he falls back asleep. Note to self: remove loaded gun from dad's night stand.
Day 4- I am exhausted. Dad is exhausted. Dad does not get out of bed today. Little appetite, no energy, and sleeps off and on all day. I continue to chip away at tasks that must be done. Often on the phone, wait and hold, wait and hold. Lisa and Karen provide distraction and support. I am very grateful.
At dawn and dusk, I look for a flock of a dozen white egrets flying low over the house on their way to and from the marsh. Somehow, they help start and end my day.
